I agree, keep this in Kenya and Sudan. If you can't work it out, there are much larger problems here at aren't going to be solved by mzungus.

And as an aside that may somehow be related, 3 of my 4 projects right now (all in the US) are currently in a state of "blowing up" with lots of bad feelings and unsureness about how to move forward. I'm probably just mistakenly overgeneralizing, but it seems to me that this is a phase humanity is in, working on this interpersonal part, which requires each of us to get to know ourselves better.

Good luck.