Thank you all who were invited here and expressed their views.I am amazed by all the people who have commented here by the way they have responded.Its Incredible.

The words of Jean answers it all

What do you need? And when you ask that question...ask immediately thereafter, and why do I need that? And again, and why do I need that? Until you get to a point of not being able to say anything else. It should get to the point of feeling ludicrous to ask it again. And, it should end with something really simple--I need integrity or I need trust